Your Irresponsible Ideas About ‘Unconditional Love’

Let’s Talk About Unconditional Love—why it is irresponsible and even dangerous to attempt live out this fantastically impossible ideal. I will start by saying, I am a hopeful romantic. I am a lover (a fighter too) and a firm believer in ‘terms and conditions’ for relationships between any two non-senile adults. In my connection and […]

Avoid Overblowing Minor Issues and Choose Your ‘Majors’ Carefully

Have you heard the idiom, “majoring in minors?” When someone is described as “majoring in minors,” the implication of that description is that such a person is overly focused on small details that don’t have a significant impact on the major goals. It implies poor prioritizing and wasting resources (time, energy etc.) on inconsequential matters […]

PRIDE MONTH, LOVE AND CHRISTIANS

June is Pride Month. Did you know that there is at least one notable monthlong observance for every month of the year? If you didn’t know, I forgive you for your lack of awareness. I discovered that every single month commemorates at least one cause or group only after I settled into corporate roles where […]

The Best Relationship Advice

You fell in love? Great. What is love? What feels like love to you? What do you like in your partner? Why do you like who you like? What gives you confidence that the person you like as a partner will be good for you? Why are you a good partner for the person you […]